| Location | Humbie East Lothian |
| Age | 23 years |
| Cause of Death | Epilepsy |
| Date of Birth | 06/03/1982 |
| Date of Death | 07/06/2005 |
| Visitors | 4,213 since 20/06/2007 |
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Our beautifull son Alan William Bisset, died 4th June 2005, age 23, a Landscape gardener, in Gorebridge Mid Lothian with his Fiancee Siobhan, Alan was the eldest of four he has two brothers Stuart and Darren and one sister Laura, Alan was out fishing at a resivoir he had epilepsy all his life and had been siezure free for 3 years, he took a siezure at the waters edge and fell in and drowned, it was 3 very long days before we got Alan back to us.
Alan ment the world to us being your first child of four we feel you learn by your first child as much as you love all your children there is somethink special about your first Alan was always smiling alwys the one to have a joke ,his favorite saying if someone wasn't smileing would be "Dae a see a smile" especially to laura he would poke her arm and say that to her he had nick names for all of them laura would be called flossy, Stuart would be jaws cause he has loads of teeth or so Alan thought and Darren would be called zippy cause he never shuts up and his dad he called B because thats short for Billy me I am just good old mum. Alan loved fishing and as a young lad went with Stuart fishing with a local man Malcom Kirk the boys thought the world of him Alan and Stuart where very close always together they also went up to a local farm we have been in the village for all of his life the two boys went up to the farm as often as they could to help out Alan was at the sick childrens hospital from when he was 6 weeks old untill he was 19 then went to the western in Edinburgh he hated having Epilepsy it was alwys in his way what ever he wanted to do like be a mechanic like his dad Alan loved to be in the engine of a car but always had to be supervised.At the age of 23 Alan met his fiancee Siobhan Pearson they had a house together and were planning to get married Alan was siezure free for three years and managed to get his provisional driving lisence and was taking lessons he had applied to go to college and had been accepted he got the letter confirming it the morning he died and was very excited just as his life was turning around for the better he went fishing that day to catch a pike and get his photo taken with it he had that siezure and drowned how cruel they say there is a god but why take Alan so young and just when he had things to look forward to as people say he was a loveable rogue that every one loved oh he had his off days when he was crabby and couldn't be bothered or he was tiered his medication made him sleepy, and mornings where his worst time but give him 5 minutes to waken up and he would be smiling.Alan alwys wanted a dog and got his beloved Tyler she was his baby Alan had a really bad absesse on his gum and had to have a stay in hospital and all he wanted was to get home to his beloved Tyler.Alan had a honda motor bike he loved to bits it was only a small one but to Alan it could have been a big 1000cc Alan was a Rangers supporter and just loved to here "simply the best " played at the end of a disco ar after a night out we played it at his funeral it was so sad Alan also loved Bob Marley you know I often wonder why the young are taken at such an early age they say there is a god on this earth but if so why take my Alan away from me and leave an ache in my heart that wont go away.love you son mum,dad,stu darren and laura (or scooby as you called her).xxx
wanted to call you today to say I love you, but your old number is no longer in service. I tried the operator, she said sorry, I have no number for you. I tried to go to your house, but you don't live there anymore. The post office has no forwarding address. I guess HEAVEN is just too far away. I love you, I miss you. You are always in my heart. Loved ones GONE but not FORGOTTEN. MERRY CHRISTMAS to all those in HEAVEN, the holidays are just not same without you here but know that you are thought about and ALWAYS in my HEART....Put this as your status if there is someone you love who is spending CHRISTMAS in HEAVEN and you wish they were down here with you ♥ ♥
Sent to me from a good friend
Janette Kay
A Child Loaned
"I'll lend you for a little time
A child of Mine." He said.
"For you to love the while he lives
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven year
Or twenty-two or three
But will you, till I call him back
Take care of him for Me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
And should his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay
Since all from Earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want the child to learn.
I've looked this wide world over
In my search for teacher's true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you;
Now will you give him all your love,
Nor think the labour vain
Nor hate Me when I come to call
And take him back again?
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord, They will be done,
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
For the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known,
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand
So True
Jayne Bisset
i cried when you passed away. i cry today still. although i loved you dearly, i couldn't make you stay. a golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. god broke my heart to prove to me he only takes the best. put this on your status if there is someone in heaven you miss everyday♥♥
My darling boy alan xx
A lot of people passed away too early -- without a reason.
When we look at the sky -- we like the thought that they look back at us.
We remember them often -- in the morning -- in the night.
When we look at the stars...a date...a song...a place...a smell...in memory of those who left us.
Post this as your status if you miss somebody who is watching you from heaven...♥ xxxx
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~R.I.P~
A very merry Christmas to everyone who has left messages and have lit candles for my beautifull boy xx Jayne and familyy xx
If we could bring you back again x
If we could bring you back again
For one more hour or day
We'd express all our unspoken love
We'd have countless things to say
If we could bring you back again,
We'd say we treasured you
And that your presence in our lives
Meant more than we ever knew
If we could bring you back again
To tell you what we should
You'd know how much we miss you now
And if we could, we would .
To Alan from Laura with love x
Wish Heaven had a phone so I could hear your voice again. I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday, and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake, from which I'll never part. God has you in his arms, I have you in my heart! Repost if you have someone in Heaven xxx
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Happy Birthday Alan my beautifull boy,
I would walk a million miles for one of your smiles
You are missed more today than yesterday
Hope you and the wee dog are having a fantastic day
It's a sad and lonely day without you
You would have neen so excited
Love you son Mum and Dad
Stuart,Darren and Laura xxx
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